The journal: Planning the room

17 articles · Written by the Sanctum Domina team

Guides to buying, placing and caring for BDSM furniture, and longer reads on the archetypes and dynamics behind it.

Latest articles

Crosses Where should a cross go in a room? 
Insights · 5 min

Every room makes a different case for where a cross should go, from dedicated spaces to sloping ceilings.

Beds How do you style a four-poster bed frame? 
Insights · 5 min

The same frame can look like a hotel suite, a cottage bedroom or a gallery. It depends on the textiles, the light and what sits beside...

Planning the room What is shibari, and where does furniture fit in? 
Insights · 6 min

Rope bondage valued as much for how it looks and feels as for what it does. What shibari is, and how furniture fits in.

Planning the room How do you light and lay out a playroom? 
Insights · 7 min

Two rooms with the same furniture can feel nothing alike. How light and layout shape a playroom.

Planning the room How do you soundproof a playroom? 
Insights · 7 min

Full soundproofing is a building project. Reducing how much sound leaves a room starts with furnishings, gaps and layout.

BDSM tests

Find your archetype, then read about it.

Three private quizzes: a readiness profile, and dominant and submissive archetype tests. Each result opens onto a long read in the journal.

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About the journal

The Sanctum Domina journal is where we write about everything around the furniture: how to choose a BDSM bed, cross or cage, how to fix and place it, how to clean powder-coated steel, and how to plan a room that works for the people using it.

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Alongside the practical guides are longer reads on power exchange itself. The archetype series looks at five dominant styles, from the Architect to the Sensation Dominant, and six submissive ones, from service to the brat, and each piece links to the quizzes that point you towards it. The femdom guide covers rituals, rooms and the furniture that suits a female-led dynamic.

Everything here is written to be read carefully. We keep safety advice general and point you to experienced educators for anything hands-on, and every guide puts consent and conversation first. New articles go out to the mailing list, and the most useful ones are linked from the beds, crosses and cages pages.